Finally told off this girl who wouldn't stop whining about school that she should stop whining.
Usually I wouldn't have; I would just avoid people when they start whining if I don't want to hear it. But this time, I decided to tell her off. I didn't scold her, I was just sarcastic about it and told her if she can't deal with school, then she will never be able to deal with working life and should stay in school forever.
I don't like it that people assume that just because I have 2 days of school a week, that my life is way better than theirs and I have no stress or worries whatsoever, and would like to hear them moaning about homework and projects, which everyone else goes through.
I worry about getting a good job, I worry about my results, I worry about my family members getting a good job, I worry that my eldest sister is ruining my family's reputation, I worry that my illness will suddenly be active again, I worry that one day I will not be able to afford medical fees, I worry that I will not accomplish all the things I set out to do in life in time. I worry that I will wake up tomorrow and find myself once again, disfigured by rashes. I worry too.
I'm really sick of people moaning about the smallest things in life, repeatedly. Once, it's fine, and I understand that the stress is getting to you, and I can sympathize with you because everyone goes through that too. Twice, I can try to put up with it again. Constantly, then don't expect me to be very nice, unless you are trying to cope with school, find a job, fight against a lifelong disease at the same time, deal with having a mad sister whom you plan to disown. I don't pity you; I look down on you.
What really pissed me off was that she was playing with a friend's feelings just so that he will constantly be nice to her. I look down on girls who are like that; you like a person not just because they are nice to you, you like them because they make you happy, and you know that you make them happy, irregardless of what you do, or what they do. It's like game strategy; the Best Response is to be together, no matter what the other person thinks. If you don't want to be together, then let him go, and stop lying to him. I have absolutely no interest in that guy (too young, too childish, not knowledgeable enough), so I don't speak for anyone but him. I'm beginning to think that she is very selfish.
But I guess most girls are, and probably the main reason why I don't generally get along with other females.
Usually I wouldn't have; I would just avoid people when they start whining if I don't want to hear it. But this time, I decided to tell her off. I didn't scold her, I was just sarcastic about it and told her if she can't deal with school, then she will never be able to deal with working life and should stay in school forever.
I don't like it that people assume that just because I have 2 days of school a week, that my life is way better than theirs and I have no stress or worries whatsoever, and would like to hear them moaning about homework and projects, which everyone else goes through.
I worry about getting a good job, I worry about my results, I worry about my family members getting a good job, I worry that my eldest sister is ruining my family's reputation, I worry that my illness will suddenly be active again, I worry that one day I will not be able to afford medical fees, I worry that I will not accomplish all the things I set out to do in life in time. I worry that I will wake up tomorrow and find myself once again, disfigured by rashes. I worry too.
I'm really sick of people moaning about the smallest things in life, repeatedly. Once, it's fine, and I understand that the stress is getting to you, and I can sympathize with you because everyone goes through that too. Twice, I can try to put up with it again. Constantly, then don't expect me to be very nice, unless you are trying to cope with school, find a job, fight against a lifelong disease at the same time, deal with having a mad sister whom you plan to disown. I don't pity you; I look down on you.
What really pissed me off was that she was playing with a friend's feelings just so that he will constantly be nice to her. I look down on girls who are like that; you like a person not just because they are nice to you, you like them because they make you happy, and you know that you make them happy, irregardless of what you do, or what they do. It's like game strategy; the Best Response is to be together, no matter what the other person thinks. If you don't want to be together, then let him go, and stop lying to him. I have absolutely no interest in that guy (too young, too childish, not knowledgeable enough), so I don't speak for anyone but him. I'm beginning to think that she is very selfish.
But I guess most girls are, and probably the main reason why I don't generally get along with other females.
posted by me at 2:55 PM
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